over a year ago I met a girl online who lived very far from me. we talked, got to know each other, skyped for endless hours, and fell in love. it was hard- we barely got to see each other, but we knew we could make it.
I now happily call that beautiful girl my wife. it took hard work and dedication, but we lasted, and i have never been happier.
We met on a website called meez. It was about maybe a few months after a made an account with my cousin because we weren’t aloud to go on myspace (my addiction till facebook came along) after those few months I came across this girl her name was kyla. After talking for a few weeks we ended up dating. I learned she lived in new york and I was from california of course that’s about 2,404 miles away from me.. After telling this to my friends everyone had there doubts they told me it wouldn’t last even a month. But now were here 5 years and 4 months later and I finally get to meet her in person and i plan on purposing to her when I see her this april. But of course it’s not all perfect with are relationship which is normal. She’s cheated on me plenty of times lied everything you can think of and i’ve done the same (nnot cheated.) But in reality no matter what has ever happened to us we always loved each other the same. It might be a messed up relationship but me and her have made it work for so long people actually message me and tell me they admire us. Just because we’ve lasted so long. Even though me and her can’t kiss hug anything normal couples can do we manage. In my opinion it’s not the physical contact that makes a relationship it’s what you feel inside. People have told me “long distance never works out it’s just setting you up for heartbreak” Long distance can work for anyone in the world as long as you have the patience and how much you love the person.
I'm really jealous of you two. I wanted to marry my girlfriend (eventually; I gave her a promise ring (which she accepted)). I'm in CA, she's in England. She decided after three years it wasn't worth it to see me so little, and that she didn't want to wait the three(ish) more years until we could live together. She gave up, and I miss her every single day. So, um... You two have a beautiful relationship, and I admire you both :). Don't ever give up.
We have been through hell and back together, we have been put through everything a couple can be put through and at the end of the day we have managed to survive, we have managed to pull through. Im really sorry to hear about what happened with your girlfriend=/, no one should have to deal with something like that. but look at it this way…Maybe it just wasn’t meant to be, maybe there is someone out there for you who will take your breath away and if waiting is necessary they will wait because love is too powerful for something like distance to break it. If what you and her was meant to be then at the end it will work itself out, but if not I am sure there is someone out there for you who will give you everything you have ever dreamed of.